what's mine is his and what's his is mine

Just got back from signing our wills and health care directives, we are also setting up supplemental needs trusts for the girls.  Finding that I have a stronger need to get this paperwork in order sooner than later.  Its somewhat a relief to have this in place, didn't realize how much it had been weighing my brain down, always the attitude of we'll get around to it then never do.  Having to educate this lawyer on FASD, he's very interested as it is new to him and his staff.  Next time we go in - he's getting the binder with accompanying CD.  We need more educated professionals and people willing to learn and help the families of these children in the long term.